PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.


Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

------Sourav Kumar Verma------

Facts about Women

If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman.
If you don't you are not a man.

If you praise her, she thinks you are lying.
If you don't, you are good for nothing.

If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring.
If you don't, she accuses you of double crossing.

If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy.
If you don't, you are a dull boy.

If you are jealous, she says it's bad.
If you don't, she thinks you do not love her.

If you attempt a romance, she says you didn't respect her.
If you don't, she thinks you didn't like her.

If you are a minute late, she complains its hard to wait.
If she is late, she says that's a girl's way.

If you visit another man, you are not putting in "quality time".
If she is visited by another man, "oh it's natural, we are girls."

If you kiss her once in a while, she professes you are cold.
If you kiss her often, she yells that you are taking advantage.

If fail to help her crossing street, you lack ethics.
If you do, she thinks its just one of men's tactics for seduction.

If you stare at another woman, she says that you are flirting.
If she is stared by other men, she says that they are just admiring.

If you talk, she wants you to listen.
If you listen, she wants you to talk.

मोहब्बत का गम होता बहुत है

मोहब्बत का गम होता बहुत है,  

के अब ये लफ्ज भी रूसवा बहुत है,

उदासी का सबब मैं क्या बताऊं, 

गली-कूचो में सन्नाटा बहुत है,

ना मिलने की कसम खा के भी मैंने,  

तुझे हर राह मैंने ढूंढा बहुत है,

ये आंखें क्या देखें किसी को, 

 इन आंखों ने तुझे देखा बहुत है,

ना जाने क्यूं बचा रखें हैं आंसू, 

 शायद मुझे रोना बहुत है,

तुझे मालूम तो होगा मेरे हमदम,

 तुझे एक शख्स से चाहा बहुत है।